Marthe Buer

Lately, I’ve been asking my friends for porn recommendations. Some girls have even asked me back. I called my friend up and asked her if she wanted to do a nude shoot with me, just us girls (and her dog). She told me she had been dreaming about doing that for months now, but never dared. My mom gave me these lace panties and told me strictly to only use them when I was bringing someone special home (wink wink).

I can’t count the times I’ve been called “sexual” by men. Is it because I’m loud and outgoing? The fact that I’m classified as a “sexual girl” in the eyes of so many people has really bothered me, when all I feel is that I’m a healthy, normal woman with a sexuality, like any other.

I grew up with a lack of good sexual education that discusses all aspects of sex, such as pleasure, and how to be confident. I wish someone would have told me how I could be confident with my own body earlier.

What you see is a project about intimacy, where I’m exploring womens sexuality. I wanted it to be playful and confident, looking at it through curious eyes. With this project I want to open up the conversation about sexuality and pleasure.